Am Ade, 28years, my girlfriend is 25years, I have been in a relationship for 8years with this lady. I love her so much and I have plans for her but she lacks vision and purpose. She doesn’t want to grow beyond where she is now. I have asked her to further her education or venture into a business but she doesn’t seem to care. She has this “I don’t care attitude”. I have fears that if we get married,she would only be depending on me. I want someone that can plan for me and am ready to settle down. She doesn’t know how to contribute when I bring a business proposal. She is not even spiritually strong too. Do you think she is still a good wife material. I don’t want her to become a big burden on me. I want to plan with my wife too. Am so confused,we have been together for 8years. Please I need your candid advice.
For me let me say ,what were you looking at for 8years, and now you are thinking of dumping her, men ehn……anyways, over to you. *Lips sealed*
Please drop him an advice in the comment box below.
Well it either you want to cope with her or u let go but 8 years, gosh, u are heartless.
I wonder what you have been thinking all through the years though.