Save Yourself from the Heartache of Trial-and-Error Relationships
Step into healing. Discover your worth. Lead with purpose. Attract Godly love.
Are you tired of relationships that leave you drained, confused, and questioning your value?
Do you find yourself repeating painful patterns, dealing with emotional wounds, or attracting people who don’t honour your worth?
It’s time to break the cycle.
“Single, Transformed, and Thriving” is not just a book; it’s a spiritual, emotional, and practical reset for anyone who is ready to thrive.
Why This Book Matters - My Journey, Your Wakeup Call
The single stage is delicate. It’s a time meant for deep healing, self-discovery, and intentionality. But for many, it becomes a season of confusion, anxiety, and pressure. I know this because I lived it.
Growing up, I didn’t know how deeply my early experiences would shape me. I started dating too early, looking for love in the wrong places. Rebound relationships became a cycle, and with each one, I lost a piece of myself.
Many people assume that the next step after graduation or the natural milestone after turning 26, 27, or 30, or landing a good job, is marriage. But this is one of the biggest mistakes we often make: confusing age or accomplishments with true readiness.
Some of the mistakes singles make include:
- Jumping into marriage too soon out of societal pressure or loneliness.
- Believing age is a sign of emotional or relational readiness.
- Going from one relationship to another, afraid of being alone.
- Telling potential partners everything they want in a spouse too early.
- Conforming others to an ideal instead of discerning alignment.
- Relying on “manifestation” without maturity or inner work.
- Wanting the right partner without becoming one first.
After I got married, I began to see the gaps that untreated trauma, unresolved identity, and unhealed wounds had created in my life. I realized I had not done enough inner work and that delayed healing was now confronting my marriage. It became clear: the real work must begin before the wedding and progressively continue. And that’s why I wrote this book.
Does This Sound Like You?
- You’ve experienced heartbreak, disappointment, and rebound relationships that left you feeling emptier.
- You’re unsure of what God has called you to be or do, and that confusion affects your confidence.
- You’re tired of waiting and drifting from God’s design, even though you know He has more for you deep down.
- You’ve experienced deep trauma, and instead of confronting your pain, you’ve numbed it until now.
- You keep defining yourself by your past mistakes or the wrong relationships.
- You’re unclear about the kind of person you need or desire, so you keep settling for less.
- You’ve enabled toxic patterns in relationships out of fear of being alone.
- You crave a deeper, more meaningful relationship with God, but don’t know where to begin.
- You’ve struggled to hear God’s voice or discern His will about your relationships.
- You’re unsure of what God has called you to be or do, and that confusion affects your confidence.
What You’ll Learn in This Book
This book is your roadmap to healing, identity, and godly relationships. Here’s what you’ll gain chapter by chapter:
Embrace Your God-Given Identity
Learn to rediscover and root your identity in Christ, not your past, pain, or other people.
Confront and Heal from Trauma
Face the pain you’ve avoided. Heal from rejection, heartbreak, and wounds still echoing in your soul.
Walk in Your Original Design
Break free from false labels and start living in alignment with your divine blueprint.
Thrive in Your Soul
Cultivate emotional wholeness and self-awareness. Your healing starts from within
Break Free from Family Patterns
Identify generational cycles, unhealthy relational models, and patterns that have hindered your growth.
Build a Strong Walk with God
Move from religion to intimacy. Deepen your spiritual connection and sensitivity to God’s voice.
Discover Your Purpose
Clarify your assignment and step boldly into the life you were created to lead.
Thrive in Your Waiting Season
Stop surviving. Learn to grow, serve, and shine in the season you’re in.
Become Attractive and Positioned to Be Found
Unlock authentic confidence and become emotionally, spiritually, and mentally ready.
Attract the Right Relationship
Discover how to build godly connections rooted in purpose and peace, not desperation.
Discern Toxic Relationships
Learn how to recognize red flags early and detach from what doesn’t serve your growth.
Guard Your Heart with Discernment
Gain wisdom on who to allow into your emotional and spiritual space.
Build Healthy Relationships
Develop tools for communication, boundaries, emotional maturity, and trust.
Lay Strong Foundations for Lasting Love
Learn timeless pillars that sustain godly, thriving relationships.
Plus: Transformative Prayer Confessions
Speak life over your healing, identity, purpose, and future relationships.
You can’t attract what your soul doesn’t believe it deserves.
Why You Need This Book
Right Now
You need clarity in a world where dating advice is loud and confusing.
In a culture that normalises toxic love, you need truth.
And in a season where waiting feels like punishment, you need purpose.
With this book, you will:
- Stop attracting relationships that drain or delay you
- Heal from wounds you’ve hidden for too long
- Hear God’s voice with clarity in your romantic decisions
- Align your self-worth with God’s perspective
- Learn how to navigate your single season with joy, vision, and confidence
- Avoid the trap of emotional confusion and repeat mistakes
- Discover the kind of love that mirrors God’s heart
In This Season,
You’re Called to Do Better
This isn’t the time to settle.
It’s time to rise. To grow. To prepare.
You cannot afford another year of confusion, another cycle of heartbreak, or another version of the same mistake.
This book is more than just pages; it’s a mirror, a healing balm, and a compass. It’s what I wish I had before I made some of my most painful mistakes. And now, I’ve poured everything into this book so you can do better, love better, and live better.
Your single season is not a curse; it’s your training ground.
It’s where God shapes your identity, heals your heart, and prepares you for destiny partnerships.
Get your copy of Single, Transformed, and Thriving: Embrace Your Journey, Live Purposefully, and Attract Healthy Relationships today.
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Single, Transformed, & Thriving
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Nike Folagbade is a Family Life Coach and Counsellor. She teaches and empowers both single and married people with godly and practical strategies — on how to build a blossoming kingdom relationship and marriage via NIKE FOLAGBADE INTERNATIONAL.
She’s a Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Results Coach; an Associate of Family Systems Engineering and a Certified Emotional Intelligence and Anger management coach. Equally, she’s a SYMBIS facilitator, who helps engaged and married couples prepare for the ‘before and after’ of their marriages.
Nike has written over seven books including ‘Get The Ring’, ‘Untold Secrets That Wreck Marriages’, and THRIVE (a prayer confession and devotional, for manifesting a transformed marriage).
