Wedding is a day event and marriage is a life time journey. As a student reads and prepare for his/her forthcoming examination so does a man is believed before he pursues her that he is prepared.
Preparedness for marriage is more important than preparedness for a wedding night.
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As Singles, we are not called to have sex because sex is pleasurable. We are called to create a pleasurable sexual relationship with the person to whom we are united in marriage.
Marriage, a vocation, is designed to result in the destruction of self-absorption. Saving sex while we court aligns us with that purpose. When a man loves a woman, he does what he can to prepare for the patience, sacrifice, and self-denial that a marriage will require—and saving sex is an exercise in all three.
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