Young Couples Club
What does it take for a marriage to work? The success of a marriage is not by default. It requires teamwork, intentionality, and engagement to thrive.
You and your partner were raised in different backgrounds; different environmental interpretations of romance, intimacy, and love were modelled to you.
Both of you have different beliefs, love languages, and expectations. Given all these factors, if you don’t actively make your marriage work by engaging in a marital vision, communication, and understanding, your marriage will likely crumble.
Let Us Go Back To The Beginning.
God created Adam and Eve not only because He wanted them to have fun and live happily ever after; He created them for His purposes. Do you remember how the scripture says: Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and every other thing will be added to you? Yeah! That’s the core.
The first thing that must happen in your life and marriage is the fulfillment of God’s plan and purposes — which comes with eternal rewards. Companionship, sexual intimacy, purpose execution, childbearing and the adventurous lifestyles in your marriage, are additions.
The biggest lie you have believed is that marriage is just to satisfy your desires. Hence, you put so much pressure on finding someone who can heal you, make you, manage you, care for you, push you, touch you and all other imaginable expectations. You place so much pressure on another mortal without asking if your actions and decisions align with God’s plan for you. The end is always filled with regrets.
MARITAL CRISIS IS ON THE INCREASE AND POSSIBLE CAUSES OF FRICTION IN MARRIAGES ARE:
Lack of compatible values.
Faulty belief systems.
Lack of grace towards a spouse.
Wrong influence and interference.
Wrong association and poor modeling.
Lack of alignment on important issues like parenting, finance, etc
Poor communication skills.
Faith and religious beliefs.
Uncontrolled passion and desires.
Not meeting your spouse’s needs and love language.
AND MANY MORE ISSUES.
These issues do not go away by themselves. You need to identify them, learn about them, and implement your new knowledge with your spouse’s partnership.
Here are signs that your marriage needs intervention
Communication breakdown thereby living together as strangers.
Constant conflict over every little issue.
Lack of friendship, romance, and intimacy.
Feelings of discontentment and dissatisfaction.
The act of one partner withdrawing emotionally.
Too much financial, spiritual and emotional burden on one partner.
Gas lighting, manipulation, and deceit.
Are you ready to elevate your marriage?
Join The Young Couple Club!
Our goal is to help you overcome the challenges that occur in the early years of your marriage. We also desire to help you experience bliss, oneness, and intentionality while loving, building, and parenting together.
OUR 12 WEEKS MODULE INCLUDE:
Here is what people in our marriage programs are saying
STRUCTURE OF THE CLASS
Frequently Asked Questions
This group was specially created for couples who want to improve their marriages and couples who are ready to deal with any marital challenge they may be facing now.
It is a 12-week program.
You get to watch the replay sessions.
Yes, you can.
The topics are tailored to build your marriage. Your decision to join does not have to be based on a marital crisis; you can join to learn and thrive together.
Every week, you get access to a video that will be reviewed in the WhatsApp group. Other webinars will hold on zoom. You also have a workbook for your evaluation purposes.
Nike Folagbade is a Family Life Coach and Counsellor. She teaches and empowers both single and married people with godly and practical strategies — on how to build a blossoming kingdom relationship and marriage via NIKE FOLAGBADE INTERNATIONAL.
She’s a Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Results Coach; an Associate of Family Systems Engineering and a Certified Emotional Intelligence and Anger management coach. Equally, she’s a SYMBIS facilitator, who helps engaged and married couples prepare for the ‘before and after’ of their marriages.
Nike has written over seven books including ‘Get The Ring’, ‘Untold Secrets That Wreck Marriages’, and THRIVE (a prayer confession and devotional, for manifesting a transformed marriage).
Nike currently writes for Business Day, Women’s Hub. She was a relationship contributor on Bella Naija, Women of Rubies and She leads Africa. Nike was listed among the 2019 Edition of the 100 Most Inspiring Young People in Nigeria. You can check out her website www.nikefolagbade.com
She is the founder of the Love and Life Hub platform that equips singles with the right knowledge on love, dating, and purpose via www.loveandlifehub.com
Nike is married to a creative genius Fola, who is building the next Amazon of Africa through a prominent publishing firm, WORITAL. To top it all, they have an amazing son.