Twitter Conference#FindingTheRightPartner By Adenike Adedokun

Incase you missed the first post……Read the first session with Folayemi Itunu here :Click Here1. Greetings to everyone in the house. Lord let your words be spoken to heal our hearts#FindingTheRightPartner2. My partner treated FindingTheRightMan(Partner).Am Adenike Adedokun. I will be treating #FindingTheRightWoman.3. #FindingTheRightWoman is a serious buisness, its not just a childish game. How prepared are you?4. Men, before you start the search, I need to let ask you \”How much do you love yourself?\” #FindingTheRightWoman5. #FindingTheRightWoman Starts with Finding the right YOU#FindingTheRightWoman6. You need to fall in love with yourself first before you fall in love with a woman out there#FindingTheRightWoman7. You need to enjoy your singleness. Its not a diseases or a curse. Its a stage you need to pass through and you should make good use of it#FindingTheRightWoman8. I need to ask you this: \”How often do you treat yourself nice? How much do you appreciate yourself? Do you love who you are? #FindingTheRightWoman9. I need answers. If you love who you are, then you are ready to mingle but if its otherwise, you may find it difficult to make the right search. #FindingTheRightWoman10. You should not find a partner because you need someone who can make you feel like you are special. You need to treat yourself special first. #FindingTheRightWoman12. Let that partner see how blessed your singleness is and get attracted to that beautiful life of yours. #FindingTheRightWoman13. Stop trying to be someone else. Love yourself first. We are not perfect but there is a unique thing about us. #FindingTheRightWoman14. After adjusting your mindset, you need to observe how well you have been treating yourself#FindingTheRightWoman15.How committed are you to yourself, to God, to your family, your finance and your time? #FindingTheRightWoman16.If you cant manage your time well, how well would you be able to manage your time with your partner? #FindingTheRightWoman17.If you are selfish to yourself, would you be able to share your world with your partner? #FindingTheRightWoman18.If you hate your singleness, you may just fall for anyone that comes around you. #FindingTheRightWoman19. Being single is a time to know yourself better, get prepared and hope for a better future. #FindingTheRightWoman20.During your singleness period, endeavour to get knowledge. Don\’t just follow the society and the media. #FindingTheRightWoman21. The Bible says in Hosea 4:6 \”My people perish because of lack of knowledge\”. Find out more about your new quest. #FindingTheRightWoman22. Buys books on relationships and marriage. Prepare for your future. Go for seminars. Study the bible. Get closer to God#FindingTheRightWoman23. If you are faithful to God and to yourself, God will direct your paths in life. #FindingTheRightWoman24. If you ask for Gods counsel in marriage, He would lead you to the right one but you still need to make things work. #FindingTheRightWoman25. Discover your purpose, so you would know the kind of partner to glue to#FindingTheRightWoman26. Don\’t be in a rush so you don\’t fly out. #FindingTheRightWoman27. Don\’t do the test and trial method. Observe with your eyes, heart and Spirit. #FindingTheRightWoman28. Build a good personality for yourself, so that your partner would meet you blessed. #FindingTheRightWoman29. The next thing to do is to get social not in the world but in the pillar of God\’s people. #FindingTheRightWoman30. Learn to dress nice and act nice too. Smile. Be friendly, you never can tell who your partner would be. #FindingTheRightWoman31.Get something doing. Get busy. Get a job or be enterprising. #FindingTheRightWoman32.Men, lets start the search now. #FindingTheRightWoman33. Don\’t fall in love with a woman based on beauty. It won\’t last. #FindingTheRightWoman34. Don\’t let your erection be your direction. Don\’t fall because you had a sexual urge. #FindingTheRightWoman35. Go for a woman who loves God. Who loves herself. #FindingTheRightWoman36. Search for a woman that shares your interest. A woman that would be a plus. #FindingTheRightWoman37. What are your values? What do you look out for? Don\’t be selfish or physical. #FindingTheRightWoman38. Let God direct you. Don\’t just fall for a delilah. #FindingTheRightWoman39. Search for a woman like Esther. She would build your home and your generation. #FindingTheRightWoman40. Be yourself. It pays. She should love you for who you are not what you are. #FindingTheRightWoman41. Go for a woman with purpose and vision. A woman who can make a home. A virtuous woman should you find. #FindingTheRightWoman42. Go for a woman who prays for you, who is concerned about your future, who is willing to fit into your future plan#FindingTheRightWoman43. After your search, work on each other. Give yourself time. Don\’t rush things. #FindingTheRightWoman44. Set your future goals together and draw a table of principles to guide your relationship. #FindingTheRightWoman45. Let your parents and your spiritual leaders be involved. Never stop praying to ascertain God\’s will. #FindingTheRightWoman46. Learn to forgive. Learn to respect and be humble. Be a man in a strong way not by weak act #FindingTheRightWoman47. Your friends should not be your paparazzi. Avoid third party interference if you want a lasting relationship.48. Know each other temperament and learn to understand each other as time goes on.49. The beauty of love is when you can achieve any good thing with it. Love with your brain too not just your heart.50. Men, be responsible. Be sacrificial. Be loving. Be caring. Be wise. Be You. #FindingTheRightWoman
CONCLUSION Another perspective: There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance. #FindingTheRightPartner–@folayemiITUNUIt’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible and not-going anywhere relationships.– @NikeAdedokunObserve the relationships around you. Pay attention: Which ones lift and which ones lean?– @folayemiITUNUPay attention: Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?– @NikeAdedokunPay attention: Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?– @folayemiITUNUPay attention: When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?– @NikeAdedokunPay attention: Which ones always have drama or don’t really understand, know, or appreciate you?– @folayemiITUNUThe more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you the better for you –@NikeAdedokunAnd the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.– @folayemiITUNUAn African proverb states, \”Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye\”; –@NikeAdedokunBefore you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don’t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. –@folayemiITUNUKeep your eyes open, and don’t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren’t really that important.– @NikeAdedokunThanks for following all through. We await your questions. @folayemiITUNU and @NikeAdedokun.#FindingTheRightPartnerMay God direct you Mr/Mrs Right partner and give you the wisdom to build your lasting relationship.#FindingTheRightPartnerStay blessed.#FindingTheRightPartner