Discovering your purpose and living a focused life is one of the great benefits. At a young age, you should strive to be a better person. Get skilled at what you love most. Since you have no lover to worry about, you could concentrate more at being a better person efficiently. So what if you have discovered your purpose, then being single is the best time to work on it. Get busy living or get busy dying.
Developing a relationship with God is so easy as a single. Your mind should be towards satisfying your Father(God). You have more freedom to be in service with God. You have time to spend hours in God’s presence reading and meditating on the word, in praying. You have no one to çontend with your quiet time.
Acquiring knowledge in preparation for marriage is also one of it. You need to prepare for marriage and not in marriage. Read books, attend seminars, listen to messages, pray harder , get wisdom for real life experiences, get counselling on relationship before jumping into a committed one. When you acquire some knowledge,it will help you choose rightly. You need to know the kind of partner you should end up with. You need to be able to find someone that has the understanding of a serious relationship. You need to know how to be a good husband or wife.
Learn how to spice up the home, your love life. Its not about getting married for fun, child bearing, pressure, changing names, finding comfort etc. Its about ending with someone who will make you happy and can help you make your dreams come true. You need to pray to let God direct you too.
When you are adequately prepared, you would know and attract the right kind of person inwardly.
You need to be with someone that can help you, your ministry and to also help you make heaven too. Don’t be with someone that can limit you and stop you from achieving your goals.
The fact here Is that you need to spend your single time acquiring knowledge and discovering your purpose so that you will get it the first time rather than jump from one place to another. Being a single is not a curse. It opens your eyes to better things and opportunities. Before you say yes, consider so many things too. If you have suffered from a break up, use your experience to learn and understand better to avoid making mistakes.
If you are in a relationship already. Have you tried finding out if you both can achieve something great together. Is he supportive? Can you share ideas? Can he/she limit you? Do you share the same vision? Don’t just waste your time being a good wife or husband to a boyfriend/girlfriend material.
Have you ever sat down together to discuss about your future? Marry value not beauty. Get wise now. Make use of your “no worry” time.
Be Wise! Be Real!! Be You!!!