Am Jane. I have been in a relationship for two years now and I have been struggling with my partner.
We both love each other and have plans for marriage. When we started the relationship, I gave him some conditions which he agreed to. I told him no sex and no sleeping over at his house. He agreed to it and things went on smoothly. We usually go out on dates and visitation to friend’s place which helps us overcome the temptation.
Suddenly after one year, he started requesting for sex. I reminded him of our agreement but it fell on deaf ears. He threatned to leave me if I don’t prove the love I have for him.He has stopped picking my calls and answering my chats. I really love him and I don’t want to loose him. Have been thinking of allowing him but am also scared. My parents know about us likewise his. His friends and my friends are so eager for the wedding day. I can’t imagine the shame of a break up. He is a cool guy and has been taking care of me too. We plan to settle down around August this year. Does it really matter that we involve sex as we plan ahead?
Do you think I should let him or let go which seems so hard for me?
Am so confused