Defensiveness is a common posture that people adopt in relationships when communicating, and it can sometimes lead to a sudden breakdown in the direction of conversations. People generally appreciate it when you take responsibility for your mistakes, as such, it becomes problematic if your partner feels you are always being defensive. Being defensive involves consistently […]
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The last time, I shared expressly on how the lack of boundaries affects the home. Let us look at the IMPACT OF IN-LAWS INTERFERENCE. So many people are yet to cleave in their marriage away from their previous family. Interference from your family can show up in ways like: One or both spouse reporting issues
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These strategies have been in operation for a long time but some couples approach it with a sense of carelessness and hardheartedness, hence it becomes easy for the enemy to make it a pit for destruction. I will group them under specific headings so it is easy to relate to them as a whole. The
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Everyone desires a great marriage and while that is a good thing, we would also agree that the going could get tough at times. There are times when it could seem like nothing is working despite all the efforts and investments you are making. It can be really tiring and frustrating. Maybe your spouse has
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One area that God quickly cautioned me about in my early years in marriage is my relationship with my in-laws. Do you know how we always watch movies that paint in-law relationships in a bad way? There is a way some of us get married with a mindset to set boundaries and keep to ourselves.
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Addiction is an unsafe place to be. It is that point in your life where you feel enslaved to a kind of struggle, habits, or sin. Addictions can range from lust to fantasy, wrong imaginations, sexual immorality, pornography, masturbation, fornication, adultery, substance, drug games, social media, they can just be any of these things. And
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Anger is a series of emotions, progressively moving from one unpleasant emotion to another. Anger can be a mixture of stress, failed expectations, disappointment, anxiety, and worry. Anger can be positive and can also be negative. People can use anger to cause a positive movement in society. If you want a change in society, you
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Oftentimes, when challenges arise in a marriage, either or both of the couple can begin to struggle with discouragement. There are tons of emotions that can creep in through the process. There could be feelings of anxiety, overwhelm, frustration and discouragement. In situations like this, it is important to seek solace in God\’s word so
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Forgiveness is a dicey topic because many people have the right to their emotions and interpretation of issues when disappointment happens. In a marriage context, relating to another person of the opposite sex that has a different mindset, values, beliefs, and ideologies can be very challenging. In Matthew 19:3, when the Pharisees approached Jesus on
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While you are out there chasing a guy or lady , do not forget to chase yourself. Most people see marriage as a prize to be won after school life or when they clock a particular age. The truth is, most married couples are not complete, they only went into marriage to seek
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