Have been writing on being a good girlfriend. I wrote on 5tips previously, click here if you missed it: Click Here To Read
1. Be More Caring:
Men love it when ladies show much care to them. He feels he is more important than any other one. There are various ways to show your affection, some are more obvious than others and the way you approach this will depend on how openly
affectionate you like to be personally. Showing care goes around how you ask of his welfare. Affection is close to but not the same as intimacy––. Showing care is about openly displaying that you care about this
person and can be shown any time of day or night, publicly or privately.
Think about how you like to feel loved and show it. Try asking about his work, his journeys, family etc.
2. Be Romantic:
Relationships would always be boring without a little spice. Love notes , Roses, romantic texts can really make his day. Don’t be afraid to be
seductive. Most men find it irresistible when a girl is sexy, classy and confident. Confidence means
being happy within your own skin; you will exude this without trying to change it. Be happy with who you are and don’t feel inferior. You can host him on a romantic dinner. Take him out on dates sometimes and pay for it. You don’t have to force yourself to be the most popular, bubbly personality if that isn’t your style; rather, be the best you are show by taking good care of yourself and trusting that you’re worth his attention. There is nothing wrong with giving him gifts. When you’re in a relationship, it’s fun to give each
other small gifts. Guys love to get presents and giving him one shows that he means a lot to you. Don’t overdo it – just give him a gift when you’re feeling loving and want to let him know how much he means to you.
You don’t want him to think you’re trying to buy his affection.
3. Be Submissive:
Submission doesn’t only occur in marriages,it also happens in relationships. Men loves to be respected. He wants you to take corrections and little orders sometimes.
Let him feel like a man sometimes.
4. Be Friendly:
You need to show love to his friends and family too. Show some hospitality. Don’t be too free but be nice to them. Make sure your man is comfortable with your friendliness with them. Don’t get too private with them too. No sharing of your secrets carelessly but be a friend to them too.
5. Don’t be too jealous:
Its not a crime to be jealous but its a crime when its get worse. You don’t have to challenge every lady you see with him. Apply wisdom in all you do. Challenge him politely if you want good answers. I wonder why some ladies fights over a man. Let him fight for you if he loves you, you don’t need to show a public stunt about it all. Men love women who respect themselves no matter how jealous they are. You don’t have to act a movie scene every weekend you are around. You don’t need to act funny like “Funke Akindele ” or so, lol. Just be well matured about it. Like recently I read in Punch newspaper that a 15year old girl pierced a 17 year old with blade over the issue of snatching her boyfriend. Now that’s so funny, aside their age, they are not just emotionally matured to handle a relationship. There is no point monitoring your partner every now and then. Give some space and don’t be on their neck at all times. If a man or woman will cheat, there is nothing you can do to stop it, no matter how smart, wicked, cunny, nice you could be. Always remember that, it is always their choice if they cheat not because you are bad. Don’t bother killing anyone over it.
I rest my case.
More to come on this topic. Watch out for part 3.
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