Truthful Fact About Life, Love And Relationships


#1 You have to love yourself first – In order to truly have aloving, supportive, and long-lasting relationship with someoneelse, you need to learn how to be your own best friend first. It’sall about falling in love with yourself and sharing that lovewith someone who appreciates you, rather than looking forlove to compensate for a self love deficit.

#2 You get what you put in – In eleven years, people won’t remember what clothes you wore, which car you drove, andmaybe not even your full name. But in eleven years, they will remember how you made them feel and the positive memories you gave them. The true impact you make on people willdepend on the time and attention you give to teaching thosewho know less, caring for those who have less, supporting those who are striving, and tolerating those who are differentthan you.

#3 What most people think of you doesn’t matter – You wouldn’t worry so much about what people thought of you ifyou knew just how seldom they do. No one is ever going tocare about your life and the way you choose to live it more than you will. That is a beautiful thing – never forget how beautiful. Follow your heart, and take your brain with youevery step of the way. Get to know your true self. When you aretruly comfortable in your own skin, not everyone will like you,but you won’t care about it one bit.

#4 Friends and family won’t always support your goals, butyou must pursue them anyway – Follow your intuition.Following your intuition means doing what feels right, even if it doesn’t look or sound right to others. Only time will tell, butour human instincts are rarely ever wrong. So don’t worryabout what everyone else thinks; keep living and speaking your truth. The only people that will get mad at you for doingso are those who want you to live a lie.

#5 Life doesn’t always change as fast as people do – Learn toaccept that not everyone is who you once knew. And realizethat sometimes it’s not the person you miss, it’s the feeling youhad when you were with them.

#6 Everyone has baggage, just like you – The minutesomeone decides to walk out of your life, that is the samemoment in which the opportunity and space opens up for someone who actually deserves your love to finally walk in.Remember, everyone has baggage, so don’t be ashamed ofyours. Be patient and find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack.

#7 Some people are meant to stay in your heart, but not inyour life – If you’re having a tough time letting go of someonewho left you, realize that if they wanted to stay they would stillbe there. Sometimes you have to forget what’s gone, appreciatewhat still remains, and look forward to what’s coming next. It sucks when you know that you need to let go, but you can’tbecause you’re still hoping for the impossible to happen. Yes,it will hurt for awhile, but you have to forget about the personwho forgot about you, and move on.

#8 Love doesn’t hurt. Love is not the problem – Don’t blame love if a failed relationship interfered with your otherimportant relationships, or robbed you of your self-esteem andpersonal freedoms. No, don’t blame love. For it wasn’t love thatstole from you. It was possession. It was obsession. It wasmanipulation. It was confusion. Love had nothing to do withyour situation. For love doesn’t close the door against all thatis good. It opens it wide to let more goodness in. Love createsfreedom and abundance.

#9 Forgiveness is always the right choice – Anyone can hold a grudge, but it takes a person with strong character to forgive.When you forgive, you release yourself from a painful burden.And no, forgiveness doesn’t mean what happened was OK; andit doesn’t mean that person should still be welcome in yourlife. It simply means you have made peace with the pain, andare ready to let it go and move on with your life.

#10 A soul mate is a person who brings out the best in you –They are far from perfect, but they are a perfect fit for you.Remember, every relationship has its problems, but what makes it perfect is when you wouldn’t want to be anywhere else, even when times are tough.

#11 A big part of who you become is who you choose to surround yourself with – Fate controls who walks into yourlife, but you decide who you let walk out, who you let stay,and who you refuse to let go. Surround yourself with people who make you a better person, and let go of those who don’t.

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